Dating is a lot of things, and it can sometimes be fun, enlightening, exciting, and sweet. However, there are times when it becomes laborious, awkward, painful, and repetitive especially if you are with the wrong person. However, no one defines dating as simple.
Merriam-Webster defines dating as a series of engagements done by two people looking to marry each other, or it can be a romantic appointment.
Of course, there’s no pressure to marry the first person you date, and today, many people have a clearer definition of what dating means to them.
Here is some advice that you may find useful, especially if you are new to the dating scene.
What to Do on the First Dates
1. Set Rules and Boundaries
If you are still unsure of the boundaries to make, you may discover it when the time comes with your first date.
You will find the things that you’re comfortable doing, and you may know the qualities of the partner that you would want to have.
Some will have feelings for those people who have the same ambitions, lifestyles, and support systems as they do and feel that the two of them have chemistry.
While you may think that you need to be flexible, it is still important to set boundaries. Speak up on the things that you’re not comfortable doing or discuss them at first to set things straight but avoid being too rigid.
If you are strict with likes/dislikes and won’t/will dos, then you may be missing out on new experiences to grow and expand your horizons. Stay curious and ask questions. Never mind if your date finds you to be illogical.
2. There are Awkward Moments
You may have accidentally elbowed the trachea of the other person during a hug, fallen asleep in the car, forgotten their names, spilled wine on the table, and did a lot of other awkward moments.
It’s natural to be nervous and feel a little uncomfortable in the company of the other person that’s literally a stranger.
But these are all part of the package, and once you accept that unexpected things can happen, everything can be so much fun and unforgettable. You and he will learn to bounce back from the slip-ups and do better next time.
3. Call It Off If they are Looking for Something Different
You may encounter a person who wants to marry you right off the bat or who invites you to his place to spend the night.
If you notice that they are beginning to insist on the things that you are uncomfortable doing, don’t be afraid to call the night…
Continue reading the article and learn more about dating on Jordan Clark’s blog.
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