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November 19, 2019 2 min to read

How to survive your elderly parents moving in with you

Category : Lifestyle

For many seniors, moving into a retirement community or nursing home simply isn’t an option. This is often when they’re faced with the decision of moving in with family, with the burden normally lying on their grown children.

While most of the time kids are glad to help, it’s no secret that this can add both financial and mental stress to your shoulders.

This is why it’s important to prepare if you have found yourself in this same situation. The tips and information below can help guide you through some of the struggles and challenges that may lie ahead.

While welcoming your parents into your home may not be easy, the transition can go more smoothly if you’re well prepared.

Should Your Parents Move in With You?

Making the decision to have your parents move in should involve deep thought rather than an automatic response. While it’s easy to want to help, there are many things to think about before giving them confirmation.

By asking yourself the questions below (in addition to discussing them with your significant other), you can determine if this truly is the right choice for your household.

Can I Afford This?

The cost of bringing two new people into the household must be considered. From medical supplies and prescriptions to food and transportation, the expenses can quickly add up.

If they are able to help cover costs, it’s important to know how long that stream of income will be available.

Can I Help With Care?

If you work or have a busy schedule, you’ll have to carefully consider whether or not you can help take care of your parents.

It might be easy to manage prescriptions in the morning and at night, but for more serious medical issues, constant care may be required.

If you’re not able to help with bathing, meal preparation, health monitoring, and other details of round-the-clock care, you may need to hire a care provider to do these things for you.

However, this care can cost around $125/day, which may be out of your budget.

Do I Have Enough Space?

Welcoming two extra people into your home means your space is about to get a lot smaller. If possible, you should move bedrooms around in order to give your parents their own bathroom.

For those who cannot climb stairs, you’ll want to explore ramps and consider making a living space on the ground floor…
 
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